Have
you ever taken the time to think about what motivates you? Sometimes it might be the desire to achieve something (like
a reward, prize or praise)and other times it might be that you actually want to
avoid something negative (such as fear
of failure, or not wanting to come last place in sport). As we come to the end
of another year, we might all be thinking about what we think we want to be motivated to achieve next year...
So
what IS motivation? Well the dictionary definition is "the reason behind
someone's actions or behaviour; desire or willingness to do something".
It
seems relatively straightforward to define what it is, however what is more
challenging is to define what determines
or influences your motivation and why one person can be highly motivated
whereas another person is not at all.
In
sport, motivation to achieve one's best can make the difference between a good
performance and a really great performance. Technical skill is obviously vital
(you cannot become an elite athlete just by thinking positively!) however
enthusiasm and determination really can make the difference that matters.
One
of the most effective ways to build motivation is with goals. If we don't know
what we want to achieve in life (or sport) then we will not be able to make a
plan of how to achieve it. This is all very well but what happens if you feel
your motivation is not going in the same direction as your goals?
There
are 7 key principles of working with goals to ensure they motivate you in the
right direction:
1. Say what you want, not what
you want to avoid
2. Make goals challenging, but
realistic
3. Make sure you can influence
the result directly
4. Measure your progress - check
you are going in the right direction regularly
5. Check your resources (do you
have what you need to achieve your goal? If not, can you get it?)
6. Count the cost - does the
achievement of this goal mean something else does not happen?
7. Reward yourself when you
achieve your goal!
Hypnosis
can also assist this process of obtaining motivation through goal setting by
being able to "tap into" the emotional, right-brain functions which
become more available and receptive in this state. Goals set in a state of
hypnosis also tend to be far more personal, useful and motivating for an
individual. In addition, hypnosis can aid the process of setting out 'memories
of the future' of achieving these goals (also known as 'mental rehearsal')
which acts as a powerful motivator by allowing someone to 'see' what it will be
like once they have achieved their goals.
If
you would like to find out more about hypnosis could help you achieve your
goals in life, contact Christy today on 01252 334377 or email:
christy@christyhypnotherapy.com
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